I feel like somebody I don't knowAre we really who we used to be?Am I really who I was? ~Ryan Adams, "Lucky Now"   I spent the better part of several years (from 2000-2004) working on a big project in Kansas City, Missouri.  I tend to associate that time with Ryan Adams, as I was listening to him a lot then.  My co-workers liked him, too, and my memories of KC include his music (Whiskeytown stuf…